Bonding Therapy

The purpose of this therapy is to give remediation to the issue of disconnection between spouses. Disconnection on its own may not be a great hurdle at first but I assure you, if it is not tackled in time, it may just be the beginning of a sad tale in marriage. Some weeks into the COVID19 lockdown around April, I came across striking statistics of divorce rate so ear tingling that I got jolted to my feet. It got me thinking: Is it when couples are together at home and are expected to bond better that they are breaking their homes? I started pondering on proffering solutions to this nagging problem in my own little way. In my research, I found out that 50% of couples get obsessed, tired, and bored with the presence of their beloved spouse. They were never compelled to stay indoors with their spouses shortly after their honeymoon. These are offshoots of unnoticed disconnections. The possibility of living with an apparently estranged spouse under the same roof is real. The fact is that a lot of couples are disconnected and some may not even notice on time that there is a disconnection. Like a tsunami, the unexpected happens and their love story turns sour. This condition has led to an alarming increase in the rate of divorce. Many couples wear matching outfits and even attend occasions together. Yet, their spouse's presence makes them feel caged and suffocated. This is even more fatal. The truth is that they are not different from divorced or separated individuals. Hence, bonding therapy is a process that is aimed at restoring the connection between spouses. The real meaning of the word CONNECT will be x-rayed as it applies to marriage. As an acronym, every letter of the word CONNECT will be deliberated on in each chapter. In using this strategy, I advise that every couple take the bonding therapy together one day at a time. No one gets married with the intention to end up eventually divorced, yet divorces are increasing, but painfully even among Christians, divorce is prevalent. We understand that in the bible, is the wisdom of God and if we must enjoy Marriage, we must go back to the originator of marriage, who is God, only through His wisdom on Marriage, can we enjoy marriage. The wisdom in the bible on marriage will need a teacher with grace, to bring out this wisdom to a level, where we can understand and implement it, in our marriages. The Author of this profound book, Mrs. Theresa Okperi is such a teacher and has beautifully written this book of profound wisdom, that is sure to keep any Marriage alive and bring a dying marriage back to life. Bonding Therapy is a truly Divinely inspired book, practical wisdom at its finest, it connects with my strong belief that until we are intentional about building our Marriage relationships, it will not grow and be all that we desire it to be. Though no one desires to get married and be divorced without putting in the work in the marriage, it is more likely to happen, for a Marriage not growing is dying. Bonding Therapy is a practical step by step on how to build a marriage and bring a dying Marriage back to life, simply by Connecting back to your spouse, this masterpiece breaks down the deeper meaning of CONNECT as an acronym that reveals the practical key to keep your marriage alive, if you can truly read this book with your spouse and sincerely partake together in the "Questions for Reflection" exercise at the end of each chapter, the idea of divorce will be very far from your marriage relationship and if your marriage is on the verge of divorce, it can be stopped and your marriage can come alive again, therefore I wholeheartedly recommend this book to every married couple, new or old in marriage. Why no click purchase, or read more on Amazon Kindle Unlimited.